Being alone by choice..I'm lovin it!!!

After few years of relationship, every woman start thinking about 'WE', rather than 'Me'. When it comes to decision making, woman thinks about what her partner will think, what will be effect on him and so on. And sometimes, we cant take decisions which are correct for us. But if one will get a break from relationship, she start thinking about the possibilities and wants, which she missed in her tenure with some.

I get an opportunity to be single for sometime .. And I am so much enjoying it. I am a mom-to-be and at my parent's place till the time I will deliver the baby and baby will be 3-4 months old.Today, it is exactly 1 month of being single and 5-6 more months, I will be 'Happily single by choice' for more time.. No more waking up early to cook for 2, No more packing lunch, No more fight on finance and money, No more expecting someone to be early at home, No emotional clashes, No more expectation and heartbreak...

Below are few advantages of being single, I found..


1. You can do as you please
2. You can be your own boss
3. You can focus on your career
4. You can be spontaneous
5. You don’t have to deal with other's personal habits
6. You have more time for activities
7. You can control your finances
8. You can appreciate your independence
9. You can gain weight without worrying
10. No one can taunt you for being miser/overspending


I know, I will have this 5 months of being single , and its one time in life opportunity. I am looking forward to enjoy it fully !!!

Attitude-- thats what really matters...

  


   We keep changing our views, ideas and suggestions about any particular thing, but the base concept which is responsible for our behaviors remains unchanged.. That 'Base Concept' is  known as attitude. Attitude is not earned by birth, though your social attire impress attitude at some scale. Thats why we are told to have good friends and rationale surroundings around us. We earned attitude by experience mainly, reading partially and by surroundings at some level only.

   How we experience certain incident  is purely matter of our choice.  We can handle unpleasant incident properly by keeping mind cool and gain at max, or vice versa. The process of handling unpleasant incident with cool mind is known as Positive Attitude. There are two basic processes of positive attitude---1. Keep mind cool 2. Aim at gaining maximum from certain incident. While, two basic course of events are co related with having negative  attitude.---1.Overwhelming 2.Ignoring optimum gain.

   You can get things done by keeping your mind cool. Sometimes , we cant keep our mind cool and get frustrated , due to irrationality of next person. But when we aim at optimum gain , we start looking the thing other person does. Once you get to know what will be the next step of the other person, the fight becomes easy as all strategy are in front of you.  All great leaders gain from positive attitude, why not we???